I HATE Valentine's Day!

HAPPY VALENTINE'S DAY!

HAHA. 

NO. 

I HATE VALENTINE'S DAY. 

I never celebrated it. 

because I never had a date / boyfriend at the time when Valentine's day comes along

plus it's a sad day for a lot of people..

I'll explain why but first -

It's a day which should be eliminated from the calendar. 

Not only because you should treat your other half, special someone

as if it were Valentine's Day everyday...

but also -

because it's a day that depresses a lot of people. 

Now if you have a boyfriend or girlfriend and your day's all planned, 

that's great

It's a great excuse for being together. 

I'm not hating lol.

Go and have a fun time :D

But this is where I have an issue with Valentine's Day.  

Valentine's Day doesn't say - oh this person just broke up with her boyfriend or girlfriend

so that person's ultra sensitive. 

It doesn't care 

if someone has lost a husband or a wife

and they can't celebrate it with them. 

It doesn't say

this person is feeling lonely or depressed, 

so we should be kind to him or her.

No - 

Valentine's Day is a cold hearted stupid excuse of a commercialised day. 

IT IS. 

I'm not saying that because I don't have a "date" for Valentine's Day. 

But it really is.

If you see how many advertisements and companies take advantage of such a day, 

to promote their sales..

it's crazy. 

I mean seriously - what does have a decoder have to do with Valentine's Day?

But still they manage to incorporate it with Valentine's Day. 

Why? 

Because there's just too much of a wide gap between Christmas / New Year

and 

Easter. 

So they have nicely inserted another day to increase their sales. 

Now my problem is this. 

These commercialised holidays are HORRIBLE to people who are going through a tough time. 

Some people have lost a family member on Christmas / Valentine's Day - whatever the occasion is. 

And for those people it normally is a very sad day. 

And I truly feel for such people. 

and for the people who are feeling sad and lonely

I just wanted to put this out there:

You're as worthy as you allow yourself to feel worthy. 

No guy/girl has power over the way you feel more than yourself. 

So you might be lonely, or feel depressed because of this stupid day. 

But try to spend it doing something you love :D

Treat yourself to a gift you'll love 

You deserve it. 

and no matter what anyone says. 

Valentine's day is overrated. 

 you shouldn't be thinking about what you haven't got. 

you should be embracing all the things you have. 

Your life might not seem that great to you. 

But only you can change your perspective that. 

So go out there, 

do something that makes you happy. 

and I'd like you to meet my Valentine this year:

yes. that's my awesome little bundle of joy, Ruby

She was a stray lonely puppy once... and she's been living with us for the past year and 4 months. 

I LOVE HER <3 

I wish you an awesome day!!

Lots of smiles, laughter 

and happiness :D xxx

SCREW Valentine's day. 

I want chocolate. 

haha. 

xxxx 

Love you all

Dyna